tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3145812932021037131.post4726628128484799513..comments2021-06-21T04:08:50.218+02:00Comments on Scatha Rising From Ashes: It startsScathahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10142503058944423178noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3145812932021037131.post-65376285058441782392012-07-18T18:47:22.773+02:002012-07-18T18:47:22.773+02:00I feel so sorry for you and the nightmares. And I&...I feel so sorry for you and the nightmares. And I'm glad for you that you are not next door neighbors ;)Scathahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10142503058944423178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3145812932021037131.post-577275060050269982012-07-17T20:27:44.496+02:002012-07-17T20:27:44.496+02:00Oh. Missed an important fact. The apartment she re...Oh. Missed an important fact. The apartment she rented was right above the office where she worked.<br /><br />Seriously. I still have nightmares about it.Jonsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17517677634712242866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3145812932021037131.post-40538082786047815492012-07-17T20:26:50.164+02:002012-07-17T20:26:50.164+02:00Eesh. DH and I were almost NMIL's "next d...Eesh. DH and I were almost NMIL's "next door neighbor" when she offered us the apartment she owned (and rented out) during the early months of our relationship.<br /><br />That would have been horrifying.Jonsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17517677634712242866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3145812932021037131.post-8870050084926423912012-07-11T12:02:42.356+02:002012-07-11T12:02:42.356+02:00Hi and thanks for visiting :)Hi and thanks for visiting :)Scathahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10142503058944423178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3145812932021037131.post-51596918455919115222012-07-11T12:01:03.285+02:002012-07-11T12:01:03.285+02:00Yeah, sharing a circle of friends makes it more di...Yeah, sharing a circle of friends makes it more difficult to balance... I'm also in that situation.<br /><br />I fortunately don't meet them every day, but it is always a possibility to bump into them, and it makes me alert constantly.<br /><br />Good to hear that your relationship with your father is based on that mutual agreement. I'm also hoping to sort of get there.Scathahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10142503058944423178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3145812932021037131.post-51632011618065850882012-07-10T00:46:54.583+02:002012-07-10T00:46:54.583+02:00Hello! I'm still in contact with my FOO, too. ...Hello! I'm still in contact with my FOO, too. It can be a difficult balancing act, especially because I absolutely cannot talk about NM in front of my enabling and engulfed sister (which is made more difficult by the fact she and I share a circle of friends who sometimes ask me how things are with my mother in front of her). My father and I have had some heart to hearts about it before, and we've agreed our relationship isn't dependent on the one I have with NM, he's just content she and I can be civil in each others presence.<br /><br />I can't imagine if I had to live next door to them and deal with them everyday though. That must be very taxing!Adela Albahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00378821081049143169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3145812932021037131.post-62699496802437409032012-07-09T20:27:42.368+02:002012-07-09T20:27:42.368+02:00Welcome to blogsville. Looking forward to hearing...Welcome to blogsville. Looking forward to hearing more from you. :) Sorry to hear you have a NM too.Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07083142637240943607noreply@blogger.com